Welcome to My Journey

i never considered myself a writer and i still don’t, really. Sir says i have talent and He loves to read my stories/journal entries. He told me i should share my writing, so this blog was born. i still struggle with the idea that i have something to say that others will want to read, but that’s why i decided to do this blog for me. It’s my attempt at “putting it out there” and i’m excited to see what happens. With recent major life changes in my recent past, i embarked on a new journey, one that i never imagined myself taking, and now i’m here to share it with you, my readers. This site is made up of a couple of components. The main blog, where i write my daily musings or journal entries and other pages that will include my creative writing projects. i attempt to write erotica, but find myself most successful with my confessional entries. (Some would say they are erotica!)

A little more about me. I’m 39 and on my way to a divorce. It’s really okay. It was for the best. i currently live with my Sir in a 24/7 Dominant/submissive relationship. i don’t work outside of the home and my primary function is the role of house sub. When i’m not writing, i keep the house clean, do the laundry, and cook the majority of the meals as well as serve Him in any other way He wishes. He is the one who encouraged me to start this blog and He is the reason that i’m considering more with my writing.

It’s important to know that due to the nature of my lifestyle and relationship with Sir, most of my posts will contain sexually graphic material, so if you’re easily offended or not of legal age in your state or country of residence, click the “x” and leave the page. If you’re looking for something steamy and meet the age requirements within your jurisdiction, welcome and enjoy yourself. CLICK HERE

A note on my Grammar:
You will find that i occasionally…no, mostly use lowercase “i” when referring to myself and usually capitalize Sir or any male pronouns when referring to Him. The reason for this is simple. He is my everything and i choose to show Him respect in this way. I am an English Lit major, so trust me, the inner grammar cop has a fit every time i do it. It just comes down to respect, that’s all. When i don’t use this grammar, it’s because i’m either writing a story or just didn’t feel it fit the piece. Sometimes, the grammar cop wins!


17 comments on “Welcome to My Journey

  1. Queencheckmate says:


  2. Kayla Lords says:

    I’ve nominated you for an award – because I love your blog!


  3. ballsybilly says:

    Congrads on the up coming divorce. (Must have been for a good reason) I look forword to your writing. As for grammar. Yes it is a good sign of respect and one that most true subs use. Except as you say, in their writing!

  4. Simon says:

    I really like your blog post. here i have found great information about BDSM.


  5. Debbie says:

    “She wrote what I was thinking” my message to Sir after reading your blog.

  6. hispuppet5 says:

    Do you still write?

    • His sweet says:

      I haven’t written in awhile, but I think I may be picking it up again. There have been a lot of transitions going on in the last several months that have kept us from living the lifestyle like we were, but that’s about to change, I believe. Thanks for your comment.

  7. Tara says:

    I can honestly say that I absolutely LOVE your blog ^^ you have really good writing skills , and its like… I really do understand where your coming from , your an inspiration to me 🙂 just thought I should let u know

  8. I am curious about finding an outlet for submission in my life, reading this only inspired a greater desire.

  9. chazziethePet says:

    i really like your blog

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  11. rondo says:

    Please help I’m new to this ie very new and I need to know what I need to do to please my dom

  12. Blake Alvis says:

    i am under Sandra smiths control

  13. Kf says:

    First let me comment on your courage, supported by your master. This is someone who deeply cares. To take you, the time to understand what you ate going through…divorce..life late 30’s… Blah blah..I truly appreciate your truth and openness. I might not be 24/7 & only “bedroom” but I believe we are one in the same and I will continue to follow you. You are N inspiration and p,ease p
    Keep writing


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